Thursday, February 13, 2014

Gifts Differing

“[We] cannot  safely assume  that other people’s  minds  work on the same principles  as our own.  All too often, others with whom we come  in contact  do not reason as we reason, or do not value the things we value, or are not inter-
ested in what interests us.”
“Well-developed introverts can deal ably with the world around them  when necessary,  but they do their best work inside their heads, in reflection.
Similarly well-developed extraverts can deal effectively with ideas, but they do their best work externally,  in action. For both kinds, the natural preference remains, like right- or left-handedness.”

Isabel Briggs Myers

The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) is a test for gauging personality type that  has been around since the 1940s.  It helped lay the foundations of the psychometric testing methods  that  employers  use today. The test’s origins are somewhat interesting.  The story goes that  one Christmas vacation,  Isabel Briggs brought home a boyfriend,  Clarence  Myers. Though  Isabel’s parents  liked the young man, her mother  Katherine  noted  that he was different  to the family. Katherine  became interested  in the idea of cate- gorizing people according  to personality type, and through reading  auto- biographies developed  a basic typology  of “meditative types,”  “spontaneous types,”  “executive  types,”  and “sociable  types.”  She discovered  Carl Jung’s book Psychological  Types  and it became the theoretical foundation for a life- time’s work,  later taken  up by her daughter (who became Isabel Briggs Myers).
Though  Isabel never studied  psychology formally,  the head of a local bank enabled  her to learn about  statistics  and personnel  tests, and the first forms of her Type Indicator were created  in 1944.  Briggs Myers persuaded school principals  in Pennsylvania  to get the test taken  by thousands of stu- dents, and also by medical and nursing  students.  A private  educational testing firm heard  about  the Indicator and published  it in 1957,  but it did not go into wide public use until the 1970s.  Since then, the MBTI has been administered to millions of people, mostly for job compatibility purposes  but also in rela- tion to teaching,  marriage  counseling,  and personal  development. The test has been refined over the decades, but Katherine  Briggs’ original  intention of dis- covering “why  people are how they are”  remains  its inspiration.
Gifts  Differing: Understanding Personality Type  is Isabel Briggs Myers’ personal  explanation of her work,  written  with the assistance  of her son Peter Briggs Myers and completed  shortly  before her death.  If you are interested  in the ideas behind  personality typology,  this is a key book  to read.
When you do the actual  MBTI test (consisting  of yes or no questions) your personality preferences are expressed  in a four-letter code, for example ISTJ or ESFP. Below is a summary  of some of the key distinctions between  the
16 types, and how this knowledge  can be applied  in practice.

Ways of perceiving: Sensing or intuiting
In Psychological  Types,  Jung suggested two contrasting ways in which people saw the world.  Some people can appreciate reality only through their five senses (“sensing” types), while others  wait for internal  confirmation of what  is true or real, relying on their unconscious. These are the “intuitive” types.
People who use the sensing mode are engrossed  in what  is around them, look only for facts, and find it less interesting  to deal with ideas or abstrac- tions.   Intuitive  people like to dwell in the unseen world  of ideas and possibili- ties, distrustful of physical reality. Whatever  mode people enjoy using and trust most, they tend to employ from an early age and refine over a lifetime.

Ways of judging:  Thinking or feeling
In the Jung/Briggs Myers understanding, people choose between  two ways of coming to conclusions  or judgments:  by thinking,  using an impersonal process of logic; and by feeling, deciding what  something  means to them.
People stick to their preferred  method.  Trusting  their own way, the thinkers  consider  the feelers as irrational and subjective. The feelers wonder how the thinkers  can possibly be objective about  the things that  matter  to them—how can they be so cold and impersonal?
Generally,  a child who prefers the feeling mode is likely to become some- one good at interpersonal relations,  while a child who prefers the thinking mode will become good at collating,  using, and organizing  facts and ideas.

The four preferences
These orientations of Sensing (S), Intuition (N), Thinking  (T), and Feeling (F) form four basic preferences that  produce  certain  values, needs, habits,  and traits.  They are:

ST—Sensing plus Thinking SF—Sensing plus Feeling NF—Intuition plus Feeling NT—Intuition plus Thinking

ST people like to proceed  only on the basis of facts that  their senses can verify. Practical  minded,  their best work  is done in fields that  require  impersonal analysis such as surgery, law, accounting, and working  with machinery.
SF people also rely on their senses, but the conclusions  they make are more based on how they feel about  the facts rather  than  cold analysis of them. They are “people  people”  and tend to be found  in fields where they can
express personal  warmth, such as nursing,  teaching,  social work,  selling, and
“service-with-a-smile” jobs.
NF people also tend to be warm and friendly, but instead  of focusing on the situation or the facts at hand,  are more interested  in how things might be
changed or future possibilities.  They like work that  utilizes their gift for commu- nication  combined  with their need to make things better,  such as higher-level teaching,  preaching,  advertising,  counseling  or psychology, writing,  and research.
NT people are also focused on possibilities,  but draw  on their powers  of rational analysis to achieve outcomes.  They are likely to be found  in profes- sions that  require  ingenious solving of problems,  particularly of a technical nature, such as science, computing, mathematics, or finance.

Extraversion  and introversion
A preference  for extraversion (seeing life in terms of the external  world)  or introversion (greater  interest  in the inner world  of ideas) is independent of your preferences for sensing, thinking,  intuition, and feeling. You can be an extraverted NT type, for instance,  or an introverted sensing and feeling type; that  is, an ENT or an ISF. The first letter of the four letter code, E or I, indi- cates your extraversion or introversion preference.
Extraverts tend to move quickly and try to influence situations directly, while introverts give themselves time to develop their insights before exposing them to the world.  Extraverts are happy  making  decisions in the thick of events, while introverts want  to reflect before taking  action.  Neither  preference necessarily makes better  decisions than  the other;  it simply represents  the style that  each is comfortable with.

Dominant and auxiliary processes
Although  we each favor certain  ways of being, one will dominate above the others.  Consider  NT types. Although  possessed of both  intuitive  and think- ing preferences,  if they find thinking  more attractive this becomes their dom- inant  process.  They may intuit  something  as being right,  but this must be confirmed  by objective thinking.  As thinking  is a process of judgment,  the final element in this person’s type is “Judgment.” They are ENTJs.  Other people’s final letter is P for “Perception,” indicating  their strong  desire to understand better.
The need for a dominant process to bring cohesion  to the self is perfectly understandable, but Jung went further  to suggest that  each person  also needs an “auxiliary” process. Introverts have extraversion as their auxiliary  so they can “put  on a public face” when necessary. Extraverts use introversion as their auxiliary  to take care of their inner lives. In both  cases, if the auxiliary  is little used, the person  lives in one extreme  and their life suffers accordingly. Briggs Myers noted  that  in our extravert-oriented society, there is a greater  penalty for introverts who do not develop their auxiliary  than  for extraverts who fail to take account  of inner things.
The aim of personality typing is to acquire  greater  powers  of perception and judgment,  which are both  assisted by the use of the auxiliary. Briggs Myers observes: “Perception without judgment  is spineless; judgment  with no perception is blind. Introversion lacking any extraversion is impractical; extraversion with no introversion is superficial.”

Better relationships through type awareness
The fact that  people don’t get along all the time suggests that  we don’t under- stand  or value the ways other  people see the world.  A thinker, for instance, will underrate a feeling type’s judgment,  because the thinker  cannot  under- stand  how the feeling type can come to good decisions without using logic. The thinker  makes this assumption because their own feelings are erratic  and unreliable.  But the feeling type has cultivated  their dominant process to such an extent  that  it delivers them good perceptions and judgments, even if it doesn’t do so for the thinker.
In the same way, because a sensing type must perceive and judge based on what  they see, hear, smell, and touch,  the views and conclusions  of an intuitive type, who just “knows” if something  is good or bad, seem incomprehensible. For the intuitive,  the sensing type seems to plod along without the “breath of life,” inspiration. To take another example:  Thinkers  think  that  feeling types talk too much. When thinkers  talk to someone  they want  information.
Therefore  if a feeling type wants  anything  from a thinker, they should  try to remember  to be concise.
In all these cases, what  each type fails to appreciate is that  the dominant process of another person  works,  and works  well. Trying to tell that  person that their perception or judgment  is wrong  is like telling grass that  it shouldn’t be green.

Dealing  with the types at work
In work  situations, if you have some idea of how your colleagues think,  you can expect to be more effective in getting your ideas accepted  and reduce any friction.  You would  know  that:
❖  With a sensing type you have to articulate the problem  very quickly before you can expect them to provide  a solution.
❖  Intuitives will only be interested  in helping if an enticing possibility  is dangled before them.
❖  Thinkers  need to know  what  sort of result they are looking  for and to have the situation explained  in a set of logical points.
❖  Feeling types will need to have the situation framed  in terms of what  it means to the people involved.

With all types, it is as well to remember  never to focus on the people involved, but to attack  the problem.  If we are aware  of each type’s contributions, there will be less conflict, less chance of loss of face, and a greater  opportunity for a perfect solution  to emerge.

Final comments
Isabel Briggs Myers’ lack of formal  psychology qualifications ensured  that  she was never fully accepted  by the psychological  establishment. Some have ques- tioned  whether  she interpreted Jung correctly,  and therefore  whether  the whole methodology for identifying  personality types is unsound. Jung himself was wary of applying  his general principles  to particular individuals,  and skeptics also claim that  the type explanations are too vague and could apply to anyone. Judge for yourself. You may find, if you take the test or a variant  of it, that  the description given of you is remarkably accurate.
On her own scale, Briggs Myers came out as an INFP (Introverted– Intuitive–Feeling–Perceiving). She noted  that  introverts often gain the most from doing the test. As three out of every four people are extraverted, and for every intuitive  there are three sensing types, we therefore  live in an “extravert’s world.” As a less common  type, introverts may, not surprisingly,  feel some pressure  to be something  they are not, and the MBTI allows them, perhaps  for the first time, to feel it is OK to be who they are.
One of the fascinating  insights in Gifts  Differing  is that  recognition and development of our type may be more important to success in life than  IQ. Isabel Briggs Myers’ view was that  personality type is as innate  as left- or right-handedness; anyone  who tries to be a right hander  when they are really a leftie is asking for stress and misery, whereas  going with our strengths  mas- sively increases our chances of fulfillment,  happiness,  and productivity.

Isabel  Briggs Myers
Born in 1897,  Briggs was schooled  at home  by her mother  in Washington DC. Her father, Lynam Briggs, was a physicist  and for over a decade was the direc- tor of the National Bureau of Standards. Isabel married Clarence Myers in 1918  and the following year graduated from  Swarthmore College with  a BA in political science.
Her tests of over 5,000  medical students  were conducted at the George Washington School of Medicine.  She followed up the study  12 years later, finding that the students  had generally followed paths (i.e. research, gen- eral practice, surgery, administration) that might  be expected  of their type. The nursing study  involved  more than 10,000 students.  The MBTI was first pub- lished in 1957  by the Educational  Testing  Service.
Isabel Briggs Myers died in 1980.  Her work  is continued today through  the Myers & Briggs Foundation.

Peter Briggs Myers, born in 1926, was a Rhodes  Scholar in physics. A scientific researcher and administrator, he was a staff director at the National Academy of Science. Involved in the development of the MBTI since his teens, he is now Chair of the Myers & Briggs Foundation and a Trustee of the Myers-Briggs Trust.

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